Today ,I would like to propose a way of living ,that if you Truly live this way,not only will it improve Your Life almost instantly but it will improve the lives of Everyone you come into contact with.
It’s not the Magic pill…. but it will bring a feeling of magic into your life,if you live by it. It’s not a winning lottery ticket …..but if you live by these principles,you won’t need a winning lottery ticket …or any amount of money, because How you feel will be the reward,and no amount of money can buy a beautiful existence .
No amount of money can buy feeling of contentment,no amount of money can buy peace or joy.
What is this way of living ?
It’s called Non-jar.
Living in a state of complete non-judgement , non-attachment , and non-resistance to whatever shows up in your life .
Let’s dive deeper into these principles..
If you give me your attention for the next few minutes, I promise it will be a game changer for you.
How often do we judge every situation and circumstances that comes into our lives, as good or bad ?
How often have we all judged situations and circumstances we perceived as bad at the time,but reallythey led to something that ultimately changed our lives for the better.
Maybe it was a breakup, that was devastating at the time,but,when looking back seems like the biggest blessing.
Maybe it was a job loss or difficult time financially that we labelled and judged as bad at the time, but if did not happen,we would not be in the great position we are in now,or doing what we now love.
The truth is we dont know anything. We can judge and label Situations all we like ,but we do not know anything. We cant possibly know the greater lesson or future blessing any situation has for our life in the moment it happens.
When we step back,especially in the difficult situations, and observe rather than judge,we can respond better with more love for others,with more love for the situation and most importantly with more love for ourselves.
When we respond in presence rather than in judgement we can respond better and the flow on effect will mean a better life,a life with more ease and joy.
It has been said that ,attachment is the source of all suffering. Every human being is guilty of this at some point,but perhaps more so the ambitious ones or the “achievers” among us.
It’s those situations in which we are so attached to the outcome that we identify with it and if the outcome doesn’t work out as planned we get upset,depressed or maybe feel a loss of our sense of self.
Non attachment doesn’t mean we dont own things it means that we dont allow things to own us. We dont allow thoughts , emotions and ideals to own us.
It is being able to live and thrive in this world,without being attached to any person,any thought,feeling, emotion or any outcome in any way..
Not being attached to anything ,being any certain way .That means being non-attached to any emotions that shows up as well. So many of us beat ourselves up for getting angry,upset,sad,down or simply not at your best.
Eckhart Tolle says:”Non-Resistance doesn’t mean doing anything. All that it means is that “doing “becomes non-reactive.”
He says:”Remember the deep wisdom underlying the practice of Eastern martial arts: Don’t resist the opponent’s force.Yield to overcome.”
Much like non-judgement and non- attachment, living in a state of non-resistance means you do not resist what happens. You no longer fight what is .
What could be more draining of life energy than fighting what is?
There is nothing. It is why,what you resist persists. Fighting against, creates more energy for the thing you are fighting against.
Letting go,accepting,and importantly stepping back and being aware of what is actually happening gives you power.Reacting not in anger or resistance, but with FOCUS and PRESENCE gives you power to change ANY SITUATION.
When we truly live by these principles OUR LIFE and our world around us instantly becomes clearer with a greater sense of peace and understanding.
Everything becomes lighter and our reactions becomes clearer .It affects not only our life and our immediate surroundings but the entire planet, because what could be more powerful than one person,living in a beautiful state..that persons effect on others,and the consequent compound effect those people will have on more people..it is profound .
What a word or can live in if we dedicate our lives in this way.I pray you all give it a try,in full presence, with pure intentions.
Thank you for reading.. Try to live in this way …